1. I vs You Language:
Pronunce I and You, we (What's problem between I and You?)
2. Anticipation:
- Winning respect
- cooperation
3. Self-Interest: How well you are going to goals?
- Money
- Power
- Popularity
- Status
- Promotion
- Recognition
4. Meta-Talk: Pay attention to another communication and use Meta-Talk to avoid conflicts.
5. Limit-Setting:
- Set both expectation of each other.
- Avoid miss a mistake.
6. Using Consequences:
- State in a Non-Threatening Manner
- Have Legitimate power
- Follow through on your action
Sources of Conflicts
I. Role confussion
II. Stereotyping
III. Manipulation:4 types
- Flattery
- Sympathy
- Guilt
- Intimidation
Tuesday, October 31, 2006
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